Our problem is, that instead of realizing that love is an emotion, and as any emotion it can only be created within us! and ultimately it can EASILY be created by us! – for you can choose to love!! – we think, we need to have someone love us, for us to feel loved (now the reason we feel love when someone loves us, is because our heart is reacting to their stimuli; but why wait for someone to feed you, when you are perfectly capable of feeding yourself!)