Our infinite mind – you see, when we live in security – we also live in fantasy – our mind dreams its hopes – imagination seems real (look how many people buy lotto tickets and ignore exercise) when we live in fear – the mind becomes super-focused – you see, there is a natural mechanism to make the mind focus – Danger – Often our lives are so filled with fear, that everything that comes into our head obsessively must be done – sometimes called control-freak or perfectionism – anything that we don’t do, we fear – and ironically both these states lead to (if we can recover security) balance