Our greatest problem is, that instead of recognizing we are not thinking: our thoughts are simply our emotions percolating into our mind… so the person in love, sees only beauty; the person in hate, sees only evil; the person addicted, sees only the pleasure; the person in pain, sees only fear – we cannot control the process! in every person, in all times, past, present and future, this is what’s happening – but what we can do – with incredible incredible incredible effort! – is, change the emotions; so what wafts into our mind, is Faith, Love, Hope in Moshiach!