One of the most important things is that things must be in the right context, for example, if you come into an office and the CEO says hello and the receptionist is in the back room, it’s not going to work; similarly with Judaism; we have to know what is most important / what is least important; and if you get the context wrong, then obviously you are making what’s least important, most important; and what’s most important, least important; and Judaism rest on one fundamental and that is Na-aseh Vi-nishmah, that the human mind is biased towards its instinctual desires, as we say every day in the Shema, loi sassoiru… Do not follow the sexual fantasies and predilections that you have; a Jew is meant to number one subjugate his desires to do what it is that God tells him and through that he is moral, everything else is only part of that story!