One of the most important – if not the most important thing – to remember, is that in the end of the day if you have no ceiling to your aspirations, you have no END to your aspirations; that is why, fundamentally, all people are simply following their desires, and if they follow their desires, as there is no ceiling to their desires, they can never, NEVER, become satisfied!!! So instead to think what I want, think only what I have!!! And when it comes to spiritual growth – for complacency is also detrimental – for without some kind of motive, you will do nothing – just ask God to help you learn from our role models, the Rebbe and the Rebbetzins, and all the great Tzaddiks, Prophets and Prophetesses, before us!