Once you understand the range of possibilities you can begin to understand… and that is every single person fundamentally speaking, has a four-point, range of possibilities, and in fact we can and always are a mixture of them, based on experience and memory, and desire, and the First possibility which is when things are comfortable, we are LOVERS, which includes as we seeing the West predilections towards addiction and laziness and fun – on the flip side as we see in harsh societies that use criticism and demeaning to manipulate behavior, so shame based societies, as we see much of Asia are highly Regimented, and people don’t seem to be very happy – and we then have a flip side, which is there is jealousy of happiness and therefore bullying, which is just a mechanism of making people unhappy – unfortunately there’s also of-course Depression and most importantly, There is Infinite Wisdom! Which Is The Dance Between God And Man