O.K. this is amazing – I am sitting in a room where there is an alarm every five seconds beeping – I didn’t even notice – in the next door there is a lady teaching yoga – so she came in and said "what is that noise?" – "it is like fingernails on a chalk-board!" – well this is what is amazing – obviously the noise is not welcome, but because I didn’t perceive it as being negative, it didn’t bother me and hence in fact I tuned it out – however, and here we see the incredible power, hence awesome responsibility of words – because she merely mentioned that it is negative, now it bothers me enough, that as soon as I finish writing this I will have to move rooms – so do you wish to bring love or hate to others?