O.k. not to be rude, but its pretty important (I once heard the Chofetz Chayim said that when we are talking for the benefit of the general public, one may say lashon hara) there have been countless psychologists and primarily, as studies show, they have been wrong – for example, there are many studies on Freud’s techniques which have proven ineffective – however, there are a few who have come up with techniques which worked – one of them is Carl Rogers and what is important to understand is that his technique was as simple, as true, as his philosophy – he believes all people need love; his solution, what he called unconditional-regard – someone who studies psychology told me that he was in university when 6,000 students came to see his technique – he came to the stage and asked if anyone was feeling depressed – a girl said yes and he asked her to come to the stage – he sat across from her and simply asked her to tell him about herself – she spoke for two hours – two weeks later she felt better – you see, if what we need is love, namely human affection, all we need to feel better, is a human heart!