No person can be rational about their desires, in fact the reverse is the truth: man’s desires, create rationalizations; so know this, which is truly, the only, yes the only way! to be the good person you desire to be! – only through ignoring all your desires, except the super-rational (meaning, beyond rational) logic, of trusting, both in God’s providence (in simple words, choices for your life) while simultaneously accepting his instructions to you (which if you so seek, God will clearly, beyond a shadow of doubt communicate them to you – otherwise, would it be possible Abraham would sacrifice his own son with even a shadow of doubt) n’ listen faithfully!