Many years ago I read something that both saves and challenged my life; It was in Tzvi Freemans book, 365 meditations, the wisdom of the Rebbe – a very insightful book – the Rebbe teaches, that if you don’t know what to do – ask God, and the first thought is God’s reply to you – in fact, I later read, that the Rebbe himself, with his absolutely amazing insights into humanity etc. etc. always used this mechanism, as did many many other Rebbes – the reason it saved my life is, though I use this mechanism all the time – perhaps to date, literally millions of times – it has always been right – the reason it challenges my life, is we instinctively need to overcome our skepticism!