listen to this as if your soul depends on it, because it does, and the sole difference between the good and narcissistic people which I hate to be graphic but it’s the difference between the kind Jews and the evil Nazis! is that the former are aware that people matter, while the latter don’t even care about themselves, it’s just in essence the addiction of sadism, demeaning, harming, and creating chaos, so their ego should feel less bad about their own shame