Life is actually remarkably bizarre -for as is obvious, life is only perceptions – but the question is, who created and creates these perceptions? – and if it is only perceptions (As Einstein said: "reality is an illusion albeit a very persistent one," which really is the essence of the theory of relativity, namely what we call reality are mainly experiences) will the perceptions change? – well in order to understand this, one must simply go to the Creator /the magician, and quite simply reality is a place whereby as God says: "see I have placed before you life and death, what is good and what is evil" and like a mouse trying different cheeses eventually we habituate ourselves to reject the latter so we can live in the former (we see this empirically how specifically – as game theory teaches – after Holocaust, world-wars etc. people begin to reject narcissistic power in favor of humane love)