I’ve just noticed something remarkable – I have seen how a young person who has some mental disabilities, but otherwise is actually very smart and sweet was given a preschool leadership role -s/he relates to the children not as the common adult, namely effectively patronizing, but as an equal – now think – relative to us God is infinitely beyond – the notion that somehow God needs us is as ludicrous as can be – so the only relationship we must say exists, is that he chooses from love to guide