It’s really so simple, I am embarrassed I never truly perceived it

 

All actions speech and even thoughts, come from emotions

 

So when you see someone speaking gently, a good example, certainly a mother cooing to her infant, you are seeing love

 

Conversely, if you see a person speaking harshly, you are seeing hate, no matter if they have good excuses (for the mind invariably rationalizes hate by projecting causes, but the issue is invariably in the heart of the hater, for the same cause/s wouldn’t preclude the same person from ignoring them in oneself)

 

If we see someone talking say about women, money etc. well that obviously means they are passionate about that