It’s not others who need to change, rather it’s ourselves; for a person is a desiring machine and we think others are getting in the way of our desires; when in truth, our desires are what’s getting in the way of our own happiness! for our desires are not rational, they are emotional, and to top it off, because they are our desires, we get egotistically connected to them; But whether we are a child or adult, as the famous saying “the only difference between the men and the boys, is the size of their toys” – only by redirecting our heart, to humbly fulfill God’s destiny, namely, to do all that we can for goodness and kindness, to hasten the Moshiach, can our lives be meaningful!!