It’s all quite simple, God gave men Chochmah, and gave woman Bina; Chochmah is innovation, which is why men always have a plan (not that they are usually practical, for the quality of innovation is the ability to innovate a new concept) Binah is the quality of comprehension (which is why studies show, most women have anxiety, for they comprehend the reality and its problems.) Now innately, God made us all desire happiness, which can only come when one is not anxious, hence ironically, men and women are the perfect match, and mismatch; for when things are going ok, men can use their quality of Chochmah to help their wives feel more secure about the future; but when things are not going so well, well then women get only ever more frustrated by men’s lack of perceiving the genuine difficulties they see.