It is obvious to all, that we lack the ability to focus on many things simultaneously – though, intrinsically women are capable of holding three conscious thoughts simultaneously (men can’t believe this, as we can only hold one, but for a brief window in my life – about a week – I did, so therefore I do believe it – and anyway it’s based on studies) but the point is, that if we cannot be focused on two different things (for even holding a thought is different from thinking) then we are forced to choose