It goes like this – life that is – by nature, as Kabbalah teaches, we seek pleasure, what we call happiness, and no pain; now if we are happy, we simultaneously are open to all people, for by nature we seek unity with all people – however if we are angry, it means someone either hurt our feelings in a way we perceive unjustified or based on a sense of grandeur – high ego – we feel someone possesses something we should have; so effectively, we feel like they stole it from us, and just as if someone stole something of yours, you would get angry, you get angry for them possessing what is rightfully “yours;” now if we are angry, we are in a miserable state, and then we become jealous of those who are happy – this is the cause of bullying, antisemitism etc. but as the mind is not stupid, so it always presents the following fact to justify evil – “I am the victim, the other the aggressor!”