it all boils down to the following equation – within each person there is both the desire for love as well as innate hate – the reason we have innate hate is because as we develop – which of-course each one of us goes through this process such as nursing, crying= changing; crying = going to sleep etc. – all in all what happens is that every time we get our way, things increase our expectation (ego / “I will get my way” – obviously we don’t have the cognitive functions to assume that the reason I get my way is not because I cried, rather because my parents have compassion) hence by the time we are two, we are convinced we are invincible – when we don’t get our way, we go ballistic – but then we learn, I am actually just a kid – (if not we are an impossibly spoiled maladjusted societal member) however if at any point our ego returns (this usually comes either from praise, which may make you think you’re great or from such a self-assumption, which can come either through an innate predilection (found very much in Germany) or through some sort of superiority (skill, talent etc.) finally ironically, it can be a self protection to shame) however as this ego returns, so does the entitlement, and so does the jealousy