Is it a blessing or a curse? – Yes, I am talking to you! – “About what!?” – “About, anything!” – Well it depends; if you see the blessing in it, it is a blessing! If you see the curse in it, it’s a curse! – The trick is not to see how you FEEL about it, which is based on assumptions, fantasies, imagination and delusions (yes we all have it!) rather, is it preferable to have it or not!