Ironically love, as we see empirically, does not guarantee loyalty, only a connection, as long as you feel love (Ironically there is less loyalty among men, for though they may love, the definition of their love "my wife" is limited to the definition of what their father / role models displayed towards a wife, is – while a woman identifies completely with her husband, similar to a son and father whereby the son assumes the identity) Certainly fear is no predicator of loyalty (for the moment the source of fear, say a dictator dies, everyone abandons) Rather (as God cleverly, because he knows this fact, positioned reality) loyalty is exclusively what you commit to, based on conviction, touching the core of your soul being