Interpersonal relationships are exceptionally simple, once you know intra (inner) personal relationships

It goes like this – The Kabbalah, in fact foundational book called Sefer Yetzirah written by Abraham writes, nothing is beyond pleasure and nothing is worse then pain.

Pretty simple

However, the question is, what causes man pleasure and what causes man pain?

And this is truly the greatest secret revealed, and it is not our reality, but our interpretation of our reality!

Many many studies prove this, but the bottom line is this, when in a relationship and the other person doesn’t look happy, do not think you can assuage their fears through gifts etc. etc. the only way to change a person (usually females) from sadness, is to change their perception of their reality – in other words, everyone who feels afraid cannot be happy, so by, for example in the story of Rabbi Akivah as he and his wife were living in abject poverty, lying on beds of straw, and God having compassion, sent Elijah the prophet dressed as a beggar requesting some straw, so happily they shared their straw, and as he left, Rabbi Akivah said to his lovely wife Rochel who came from a fabulously wealthy home – you see, there are those worse off than we. In other words, he tried to show her light – and this is the key, to show those who are sad; Hope, Light, for light banishes darkness! Sent via my BlackBerry from Vodacom – let your email find you!