In very very summarized words, we basically can either be God-forbid in pain, whether it’s from shame, whether it’s from physical pain, whether it’s from stress, worry about finances or something wrong with children God-forbid or something else, or we can, not have any of those worries, feel good about ourselves, and then we are in a state of pleasure; the problem is, as Kabbalah states, there is no higher state then the state of pleasure; so we see this very clearly in children, that they have no worries; everything is good and let’s say they have no self-esteem problems, they have love, but once we are in the state of pleasure, instead of now focusing on a meaningful purpose what begins to happen is, we look for egotistical desires.