In truth life really boils down to two options, humility (not thinking of oneself) hence identification (seeing the good in another) hence love, hence unity vs. arrogance (thinking of oneself) hence entitlement (as I am so great I deserve to get my wishes fulfilled) hence anger (as no one else believes your entitlement) hence hate (this is a little more complicated but the way it goes is that people are by nature jealous hence if I am (god-forbid) angry then I become jealous of those who are not) hence bullying, which is a mechanism to make others hate (for when they feel unjustifiably attacked, raped, demeaned, their heart will get angry, hence hate) as misery needs company