In the end of the day it all boils down to a. Either we are simply delusional, namely our desires, as in little children "liberals" dominate our consciousness – or b. Unfortunately our fears, anxiety, worries dominate our coinsiouscness – as we know women suffer from double the rate of anxiety as men which ironically is probably a more, rather than less, based on reality than A. And finally – exceptionally rare – we discover the truth, and have the courage to ignore those jealous who bully and shame