in other words – we are our own fantasy – if all of reality as Einstein says is an illusion (for what you see appears as matter, though it is constantly moving energy, which as physicists say, the most concrete thing you can say about it, is it’s like a thought) so we too perceive our bodies as who we are, though it is just matter (note your body can exist without you, upon passing (at least for a while)) hence our goal is to allow the only true one, in