In other words, as Kabbalah teaches, three sides include all the “sides” to our universe – there is the side of love = attraction to that which gives us pleasure; there is the side of fear = retraction from what we perceive will harm us (this is the sum total of all animal behavior) but as a human, we can use our mind to realize, that why live like an animal, when instead, we can live like an angel, namely, listen to God’s wisdom