In order to free yourself, for you to shine, for your soul to sing! to not feel fear (of rejection, of failure, of shame…) all you need to do is realize: 1. No one is better (that’s like saying one cockroach somehow is superior..) 2. Those that look great are pretending (like a knight in shining armor – the more armor, the more fear – think about it…) 3. As all of human history including the present has shown – if people are pretending (because they are afraid of shame, hence develop narcissism or perfectionist attitude… ) unless you go to the truth, which is to God, and to His Prophet of the generation, as Moses said "A prophet like me, I will send in each generation" (talking obvoiusly in the name of God – for the prophet has no ego, is like a clear window allowing God to talk through him…) only through His wisdom and moral can you live – it never has, never will, or can change – for there is only one truth, but many fear