In life we have a choice to be happy or upset. When we are upset it is always a result of feeling that either you should have something you deserve…, or something you didn’t deserve occurred to you…, and therefore there are three solutions:The first solution is choosing to be happy for the choice of happiness will overrun the pain of upsetness. The second is to ask yourself, do I really have what I deserve…? Thank G-d, we don’t get what we deserve – do we deserve life (we were literally created from nothing)… The third is we have to ask ourselves, is true gain or loss measured by what others may have – or did to us – or by spiritual growth, which is infinite