In life we can live in one of three realities: either expectations that the good that occurred to us we are entitled to reoccurring – or fears that the bad that occurred to us will reoccur; hence developing phobias (of specific anxieties) or general anxiety (living in a state of heightened awareness – hyper-vigilance, as the Torah which psychologically is 100%, says about the curses God predicts “that after all you have seen, you will fear the rustling of a leaf!” (for in heightened anxiety – imagine walking on a field that someone suddenly tells you is strewn with landmines – so any potential protrusion in the ground will freak you out) or finally the truth – you are in God’s video game – every experience brings you (and likewise for everyone else) to the next dimension