in life we can either see it in one of two ways – it is either a battle between your way or my way, or we can both agree – in other words for most of human history the subconscious hence absolute perception was, it will only go according to one person’s way, so every society had one person and all others were obligated to follow; but in the higher consciousness, life must protect the civil liberties of each person, namely their safety, as long as they are not impinging on another’s safety, and if people wish to merge, they must do so by consent