In life we can be motivated either through the immature impulse of seeking pleasure / comfort, we can be motivated through the anxiety impulse, which is a perception of danger, hence both acquiescing to bullies, as well as being protective, which is not all bad, because there are things that we need to do, and anxiety produces a drug that focuses the mind and the body… which focus is the key to achieving, but if you use your head, and CHOOSE your focuses, as apposed to wandering, like a sheep or just charging like a bull – like a saint, You Align Your Behavior To Your Core Beliefs