In life there are always many factors. But the most important question is, what is the most important or if you want to call the "governing" factor in your life and invariably it is 1 of 5 possibilities. One is kind of a utopiastic outlook on reality, which happens when societies are safe and prosperous and we don’t want to feel any pain and suffering – and so we imagine that everyone means positive. The other is the opposite of that, which happens in societies or individuals that have been hurt and are afraid of being hurt. And as we don’t want to be hurt again, we create a ghoulish reality in which the world is kind of as in game theory an us vs. them mentality. Societies like the Arab society, the German society become very much not about a complimentary society, but who can outdo the other – combining with a deep sense of shame and hatred towards all other societies.And then there is the ideal situatio, which is that reality is a combination of 5 factors: the Creator and the Creation – and the creation himself is aCombination of The Creator and the creation – you have within you your higher self and your lower self, your G-dly self, and your an animal self.And you also have an independent brain which can kind of objectively view reality – seeking truth and meaning.