In life if things go as planned we first are given unconditional-love which makes us love unconditionally – as they say "if you are not a liberal by the time you’re 20 you have no heart, if you are not a conservative by the time you’re 30… because by that time you realize, that in life there are bullies, malicious people, terrorists, that their sole pleasure is another person’s pain – now instead of, if you can’t beat em,’ join em’ – you begin to discern and eventually seeking truth, you come to acknowledge that all of us are here for the primary purpose of fulfilling the infinite upgrading teachings of our Creator