In essence there is the joy of those who have never suffered yet simultaneously they are illusional (not recognizing danger) then there is the misery, fear, hence anxiety, hence jealousy (of those lacking anxiety, hence maliciousness, for when jealousy enters we wish the other to likewise suffer, hence rationalization (for as we wish to not see ourselves in a negative light, the brain imagines why our hate is justified – no better example than the irrational hate of Obama, antisemitism, in general any type of radical, whether black or white) but then there is the truth – that life is when you can choose, direct, control, balance