Imagine someone running to a prison – "Please, lock me up!" – "Did, you commit a crime?" – "But, I love being in prison!" – "No." – "Here, let me give you a million dollars!" – "O.k." – then in prison you say, "Please put me in solitary" – "But were you bad?" "But I love being in solitary!" – "No." – "How about another million?!" – Well, you would transfer this person to the psychiatric unit – but that is who you and I are – there is no greater jail, no greater solitary confinement then chasing agrandization