Imagine life as a diamond – a diamond of-course has a top and bottom, and a right and left – the right side is love/positive desire, the left side is fear/negative desire – these two desires counteract each other – for there is but one heart, one gps, so to the extent you fear, is the extent you cannot love – now on the top is God/goodness/wisdom, on the bottom is self – if we don’t live with the top, then the bottom descends into the realm of kelipos/evil – like adam who had everything, but feeling great/arrogant, his delusion of greatness caused lack of common-sense, ending in permanent shame