Imagine a soup – this soup of-course has many flavors, but as it’s blended you cannot differentiate – Now this is what a human is, but if you go to the Creator who blended us, and study Kabbalah you realize we are a composite, primarily of five realities, the highest and our truest self is goodness, selflessness, a certain sincerity bordering on naivete, a sense of identification toward and compassion for others – The second which is what our primary identity is made up of, is a conglomeration of desires – obviously No desire = no person – These desires succinctly are various loves and fear (phobias) However there is a dark side, the dark side is jealousy, for jealousy stems from the desire to be supreme and certainly not lower!, hence if I am superior to another it bothers me not, however if another is superior to me and I feel that this is not fair, for example, Muslims against the west (in their ideology they must be on top, Arabs against everyone etc.) then my sole occupation in life (besides my innate loves and fear, hence the sexual predilection of Arabs etc.) is to lower others (this is critical to understand, for behind jealous hate is not a cause, rather the cause is an excuse to belittle, demean, demoralize, eventually enslave, and control, as we see with the Arabs are doing in ISIS, which in truth they did for thousands of years) however the good news is, we have a mind – and if we truly desire, for the force of desire controls all other human forces, hence we see when someone desires they gain at times superhuman strength certainly self-discipline etc. we can then humble ourselves to the understanding that all our desires are simply delusions, for the person desiring it itself is a delusion (unless they are positive)