I’m embarrassed by how simple the truth is and that is that each and every person, past, present and future either believes "me and/or my group is correct", or, "everyone is a bunch of crooks and thieves" or we understand three things: one, life consists both good and sadistic tendencies, (whereas we admit to the former, we deny the latter – but all of human history, people born just like you, proves that it exists) and last but not least, as we go through the ups and downs of life, the good and the bad, including our own pride and shame, we begin to infinitely grow