If you do things because you want to do them, you may find you don’t want to do it; then not only have your invested time money effort into what you don’t want, you have actually gotten yourself stuck into a situation that you need to extricate yourself out of; so do what you are told to do by God, by asking your Mashpia, for then you won’t find, that a. it was useless b. How do I get out of here?