If we think about it, as Kabbalah teaches: God made inverted realities – for example, fear is the opposite of love; for love is the attainment of what I desire, fear is the desire to not attain what I fear! – Pleasure is an escape from the mundane, purpose is to transform the mundane into something pleasurably spiritual – A woman seeks a home, a man seeks to make his mark outside the home! God is both beyond, but wishes to be invited within! For ultimately, it is the balance in which all positive can endure