If we replace the word love with the word yes – and the word fear with the word no – in other words, when we are young and naive we say yes to everyone, because we think everyone knows what they’re talking about – often when we’re older and cynical, we say no to everyone, because we assume that as we’ve been scammed before, everyone is a bunch of scammers – but the truth is our goal in life is to know whom to say yes to, and whom to say no to, for some people such as the Rebbe, are literally the voice of God – while others are the exact opposite