If we love, we do not hate; if we hate, we criticize, condemn; which is a means to demean, eradicate

(for there is hatred based on a reason – so if you say hit me, my ego says to get even, and when I hit you back, I feel better (God-forbid) But if I have been demeaned, and I am fundamentally jealous – feeling that there is no right for others to feel self-respect (and by nature, we’re all fundamentally jealous, when we identify with another – in other words, see another as ourselves; hence don’t consider it fair that somehow they should be luckier! (which is why, for-example, blacks, though within their own society often may be viscous; often toward whites are very pleasant (for having lived for decades in a Africa, I noticed that many of them consider themselves lower, hence don’t expect to have the privileges – we see this even with whites – whereas most of us are not rich, hence we don’t get jealous, say of a rich man’s Lear-jet whereas a fellow rich man, might)