If we know this, there is nothing positive and conversely nothing negative we cannot achieve/prevent – Kabbalah teaches, there are five layers to the soul – without belaboring the details – what is necessary to know, is, that our thoughts are not our thoughts, they are the conclusions of our desires – so if I am looking say for money, my thoughts are conceiving mechanisms of how to make money – if I am looking to get married, my thoughts likewise – so the way to become who you wish to be, is, to, a. erase all desires, for any desire, even those you are unaware of, already creates the process of conceiving how to get it b. only, yes truly only! desire to fulfill God’s desires of you