If we are all born with the desire to love why do some people end up hating? – love and hate are actually two sides of the same coin, the former is doing what is good for me and the latter is also, albeit the former is connecting (which is an instinct) the latter revenge or jeolosy (also…) – only by reducing such a sick person as ourselves to our debased status (for the humiliation of our ego which is our instinctual driver (as we see how a depressed (ashamed of oneself) person loses their will – and hence our soul/mind Can dominate