If the above blog is true – then does that mean we are in fact telling the brain what to see? – the answer is absolutely! – the person in love (subconsciously) tells the brain to see what is lovable, the person in hate (subconsciously) tells the brain to see what is hateful – this is why two people can look at the same exact scenario – and arrive at a diametrically opposed conclusion – so you need to ask yourself – do I wish to see a world that will evoke hate or love