If I had to use my 46 years of experience as a barometer of reality, it is obvious that there are three dimensions – the physical dimension which runs usually by a set of natural laws – the interpersonal dimension which basically we all create the reflective emotion of our self (and there are some morons who unfortunately carry shame and guilt and anger and hate and hence jealousy and Malice) so as long as you can understand that they are the problem and not you!, you don’t allow their shaming you, to cause a different self, negative image – and ultimately the ultimate truth is that none of us have the foggiest notion about what’s going to happen in the future – we are like ships in a giant ocean and only the sailors that know how to catch the waves and lower the mast at the storms, will make it