I would like to confirm the Baal Shem Tov’s teaching “Your friend is your mirror, when you see something wrong in him, it is your own evil – even if you see his Teffilin is off” – in other words, we Jews have a mitzvah (commandment) that men daily wear Teffilin – so the Teffilin need to be “between the eyes” (on the forehead) and I see – when I feel love for people, I don’t notice that their Teffilin are off-center – similarly, when we feel love, we don’t think people are off