I think I have discovered the most simplest of truths, which are obscured; and it goes like this: there are those with and those without chips on their shoulders – the difference is profound – when we have a chip on our shoulder, we are well, always looking over our shoulder, we think others are judging us, we hence a. live in fear b. we resent the fact that others are judging us c. we begin to judge others negatively, which results quite simply in a world-view of hating people; conversely, when we don’t have chips on our shoulder, we a. think others love us, hence b. we love others, which c. causes others to love us.