I think God is an expert at getting our attention- as I came into 770 the main synagogue of Chabad / the Rebbe, they have a video playing which is episodes of people coming to the Rebbe etc. and though I was quite intentional about going into the synagogue – I had to stop when I heard my grandfather as the background – and I approach and seeing the beautiful memorable times… for those who never experienced being in the presence of the Rebbe, it’s like a person who never experienced a hug